Its not about you being the boss chick. And boy, do I hate that term! Jo Owen. Hes helped thousands of people align work, family, spirituality, and love so they can unlock the door to their personal power. You have just given me a license to be me freely. I respect you for your honesty on this post and Im not sure if applies- but I could empathize it might be exhausting to be the target of jilted womens scorn and envy. Thats the trademark of the alpha position : dominance There is no alpha position without a hierarchy. Youre too busyexcelling at life to worry about the people who dont cheer you on. It often causes frustration or increased consumption of other people, and the inability to delegate and trust. You recognize the learning that is possible because of the situation and you go on to pick your socks up without skipping a beat. For a relationship to be successful, it must give men a sense of meaning and purpose. If someone can maintain it effectively, great! Alphas are leaders. This is why its important to ask how you can help to support others rather than control them. You tell em Kaylee! Youre not a slave to your emotions. They too like to be the center of attention. In a study called Leadership Influences of the Veteran Alpha Female, the researchers found that a common theme among veteran alpha female leaders was the importance of continuous learning. You can dance with the best of them, but make no mistake: you are always leading the way in whatever it is you are doing. but the agressive ones can always sniff another leader, they can tell, it doesnt matter if this person is another alpha or not. I dont even believe she is entirely conscious of it- it just comes natural. //